The Breakdown Before the Breakthrough
San Francisco. 6 a.m. Mascara running. Heart shattered. I stared into the hotel mirror and whispered, “Why does this keep happening to me?”
From the outside, I had it all: living in glamorous Dubai, jetting across the world as a private and commercial flight attendant, surrounded by city lights, champagne toasts, and Instagram-worthy nights.
But inside? I was crumbling.
I kept chasing emotionally unavailable men and calling it love.
I was stuck in toxic cycles, convinced chaos was chemistry.
I looked confident, but I was completely disconnected from my worth.
And when a good man showed up? I ran. Straight back to the heartbreak I swore I’d never return to.
Behind the curated photos and luxury lifestyle was a woman who couldn’t look in the mirror without crying.
The Breakdown Before the Breakthrough
San Francisco. 6 a.m. Mascara running. Heart shattered. I stared into the hotel mirror and whispered, “Why does this keep happening to me?”
From the outside, I had it all: living in glamorous Dubai, jetting across the world as a private and commercial flight attendant, surrounded by city lights, champagne toasts, and Instagram-worthy nights.
But inside? I was crumbling.
I kept chasing emotionally unavailable men and calling it love.
I was stuck in toxic cycles, convinced chaos was chemistry.
I looked confident, but I was completely disconnected from my worth.
And when a good man showed up? I ran. Straight back to the heartbreak I swore I’d never return to.
Behind the curated photos and luxury lifestyle was a woman who couldn’t look in the mirror without crying.
The Moment It All Shifted
That morning in San Francisco, I stopped blaming everyone else and took a long, hard look at the common denominator: me.
Not from a place of shame, but from radical responsibility.
I wasn’t broken, but I was out of alignment.
I wasn’t unlucky in love, I was unhealed in love.
I didn’t need fixing, I needed to come home to myself.
That moment changed everything. I booked my first therapy session, dove headfirst into healing, and made a vow: I would never abandon myself again.
The Moment It All Shifted
That morning in San Francisco, I stopped blaming everyone else and took a long, hard look at the common denominator: me.
Not from a place of shame, but from radical responsibility.
I wasn’t broken, but I was out of alignment.
I wasn’t unlucky in love, I was unhealed in love.
I didn’t need fixing, I needed to come home to myself.
That moment changed everything. I booked my first therapy session, dove headfirst into healing, and made a vow: I would never abandon myself
The Rise of Lupe Love
Healing became my obsession. And slowly, I built a life rooted in self-love, boundaries, and aligned relationships.
Today, I’m:
Living in Chicago and creating the kind of life I once thought was impossible.
In a loving, secure partnership with the man of my dreams.
Pursuing my Master’s in Psychology to deepen my craft.
Supporting people all over the world as a certified coach.
That girl in the bathroom didn’t know the love, joy, and peace that was waiting on the other side of her breakdown, but she chose to believe in it anyway.
The Rise of Lupe Love
Healing became my obsession. And slowly, I built a life rooted in self-love, boundaries, and aligned relationships.
Today, I’m:
Living in Chicago and creating the kind of life I once thought was impossible.
In a loving, secure partnership with the man of my dreams.
Pursuing my Master’s in Psychology to deepen my craft.
Supporting people all over the world as a certified coach.
That girl in the bathroom didn’t know the love, joy, and peace that was waiting on the other side of her breakdown, but she chose to believe in it anyway.
Why I Became a Coach
Because I know what it feels like to cry yourself to sleep and still wake up with hope.
Because I know how exhausting it is to look like you have it together while secretly falling apart.
Because I believe every person deserves to love themselves wildly, walk in their worth, and receive soul-aligned love.
And I believe you’re ready.
Why I Became a Coach
Because I know what it feels like to cry yourself to sleep and still wake up with hope.
Because I know how exhausting it is to look like you have it together while secretly falling apart.
Because I believe every person deserves to love themselves wildly, walk in their worth, and receive soul-aligned love.
And I believe you’re ready.
My Mission
I help people stop chasing love and start becoming it.
My signature coaching approach blends psychology, intuitive guidance, and real-world strategy to help you:
Break toxic patterns
Reclaim your power
Heal the relationship with yourself
Attract aligned, secure, soul-nourishing love
You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to be ready.
Let’s rewrite the story—together.
My Mission
I help people stop chasing love and start becoming it.
My signature coaching approach blends psychology, intuitive guidance, and real-world strategy to help you:
Break toxic patterns
Reclaim your power
Heal the relationship with yourself
Attract aligned, secure, soul-nourishing love
You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to be ready.
Let’s rewrite the story—together.