Hello! I’m Lupe! 💕
Picture This…
There I am, standing in front of the mirror in a big, fluffy bathrobe, in a gorgeous hotel room overlooking San Francisco—bawling my eyes out. My face is puffy, my eyes are bloodshot, mascara is everywhere. I stare at my reflection and say:
“Here we are again. Another heartbreak. Another messy breakup. Why does this keep happening to me? What is the problem!?!”
Living the Dream… or So I Thought
In my 20s, I was living what looked like a dream life—I was traveling the world as an international flight attendant, living in glitzy Dubai, surrounded by beautiful friends, glamorous adventures, and whirlwind romances. From the outside, my life looked incredible.
But behind all the glamour, I was M.I.S.E.R.A.B.L.E.
💔 My relationships were destroying me. I kept falling for men who lied, cheated, gaslit me—one heartbreak after another. And when a good guy did come along? I sabotaged it and ran back to one of my toxic exes. I was obsessed (truly) with men who treated me terribly.
😞 I wasn’t even enjoying my so-called dream life. I would be in breathtaking cities like Paris, Tokyo, London, yet I spent my nights crying alone in hotel rooms, completely lost. I posted pictures of me smiling at yacht parties, fancy dinners, and clubs, but inside, I was filled with anxiety:
“Did I wear the right dress? I’m sure everyone here thinks I am an idiot. Will this photo get enough likes?”
⚡ I wasn’t taking care of myself in any way. Physically, I was exhausted—jumping from time zone to time zone, partying all night instead of sleeping, barely eating, and when I did, it was junk food.
I was drowning in toxic relationships, seeking validation in all the wrong places, numbing my emotions with partying, spending recklessly to feel worthy, and running on impulsivity and chaos—all while battling undiagnosed ADHD.
Despite all that, I had NO IDEA why I was so unhappy.
I had it ALL—fabulous friends, a stunning apartment in Dubai, a glamorous job, designer clothes, the most amazing Instagram feed…
So why was I always crying?
The Truth?
I didn’t love myself.
I had no real sense of self-worth, so I kept chasing love, validation, and excitement in places that would never fulfill me.
The Moment Everything Changed
Back to me—standing in that San Francisco hotel bathroom, fresh off the devastating discovery that my boyfriend of two years was having an affair (with the one girl I had been worried about—who he swore was just a friend. Eye roll).
I had spent the night crying uncontrollably and finally dragged myself to the mirror as the sun was rising.
“Here we are again. Another heartbreak. Another messy breakup. Why does this keep happening to me?”
And then a quiet, still thought came to me:
“It’s YOU. This keeps happening because of YOU.”
For the first time in my life, I saw the truth. Not in a shameful way, but in a deeply peaceful and empowering way.
💡 I was the common denominator in all my pain.
💡 Every bad relationship, every toxic cycle, every self-destructive habit—I had played a role in all of it.
That day, I made a choice: I was never going to be in a situation like this again. I was determined to absolutely transform myself and my life. I dried my tears, washed my face, and booked my first therapy appointment.
Welcome to Lupe Love Coaching
Fast forward to today:
After years of therapy, coaching, self-discovery, and deep inner work, I am no longer a passenger in my own life—I’m the driver.
I transformed my mindset, my patterns, and ultimately, my entire life.
✨ I live in Chicago, surrounded by incredible friends and family.
✨ I still travel the world—but now, with intention and joy.
✨ I’m pursuing my Master’s in Psychology—because I wanted to truly understand love, relationships, and healing at the deepest level.
✨ I’m creating a life alongside the man of my dreams—something I once thought was impossible.
That girl crying in the bathroom? She couldn’t even begin to imagine how good things were going to get…
But she KNEW she was going to make it happen.
Why I Became a Coach ✨
That moment in the mirror changed everything.
When I realized that I could take control of my thoughts, emotions, and actions, it was like someone lifted a veil—I could finally see clearly.
For the first time, I understood:
💡 Everything is a choice.
💡 I have complete control over my life.
That realization felt like discovering a superpower, and I knew I had to share this magic with others.
I recognized that so many people were walking around as blind as I had been—stuck in toxic cycles, lost in self-doubt, and desperate for love, without realizing they needed to start within.
So, I went back to school to study psychology, became a certified love and relationship coach, and made it my mission to help others break free from their own darkness and step into their power.
Today, I still jet around the world and dance under the stars—but now, I do it from a place of self-love and authenticity.
My Mission 💖
My passion is helping YOU become the highest version of yourself, so you can:
✅ Take control of your life
✅ Break toxic cycles
✅ Heal your heart
✅ Create the love and happiness you truly deserve
I’m so excited to be on this journey with you.
Xoxo, Lupe Love